Victorian childhood is often remembered through stern parents, harsh discipline and children sent out to work. Yet hardship did not erase affection, play or family bonds. Looking beyond the familiar stereotypes reveals childhoods shaped by both necessity and love, and children who found ways to be children even within demanding lives.

Every adult in our family tree was once a child, shaped by the people, places and circumstances surrounding them. Yet children are often among the quietest figures in the historical record, appearing briefly in census returns, school logbooks and faded photographs before seemingly disappearing into adulthood. By looking more closely at the traces they left behind, we can uncover stories of play, work, care, hardship and belonging, and begin to understand not only who our ancestors became, but what it was like to grow up in their world.

To most people, Killerton is a historic Devon estate. To us, it was a childhood kingdom of ancient trees, conker-filled pockets, Apple Days and endless adventures with Grandad. Looking back, I realise we weren't simply exploring its history, we were quietly becoming part of it.